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Sex, The Internet and American Suburbia
"Cheating Online is Adultery."
Headline from La Stamp, a popular Italian newspaper.

"My wife doesn’t care if I have relationships (even sexual) on the Internet. It’s like it’s not real ...I can get away with it. But, I’m sure she’d get upset if we were to meet for a drink or something."
-- Anonymous Dateable.com Survey Respondent
41-year old married male from Oklahoma City

A recent survey by Dateable.com, one of the first Internet romance communities, has revealed the results from a four-month survey of Internet sex and morality. The bottom line: You can talk, but you can’t look.

Dateable.com picked a good time to release these results. The Italian public is having the same debate this week. A recent poll of Italians, where 97% of the population is Roman Catholic, said that 40% of Italian women interviewed said they feared that "their husbands might find a woman more fascinating than them while surfing the Web."

How do Americans compare?
When Dateable.com visitors were asked where they would draw the line when their significant other commits cyber-contact with a member of the opposite sex, their responses were a little surprising.

According to the survey, conducted by Dateable.com in the first half of 2000, here is what IS OK:
  • 79.7% of their viewers stated that it IS OK to reply to an instant message or ICQ.
  • The same percent of viewers even went as far as to say it IS OK to have an online IM or ICQ conversation with a member of the opposite sex whom they don’t even know.
  • An astonishing 75.2% of their visitors stated that it IS OK for their significant other to visit an adult site.

And here’s what’s NOT OK:

  • Photo exchange. 54% of Dateable.com’s visitors say it is NOT OK to exchange photos with a person of the opposite sex whom they don’t know.
  • 77.4% visitors polled that it is NOT OK for their significant other to participate in an adult one-on-one online video conversation with a member of the opposite sex whom they don’t know.
  • 80.6% of Dateable.com’s visitors feel that it is NOT OK for their significant other to give his or her phone number to a member of the opposite sex whom they do not know, but met online.

Nobody knows the true number of marital affairs occurring online, but Elizabeth Field, founder of Infidelitybusters.com, said she knows increasing numbers of people who have been burned by this kind of cheating. "To me, it's a sign of the times ... I don't agree with (cyber-cheating) at all," said Field.

Want to learn more about the survey? Go to www.dateable.com to participate in the sex and morality survey and read the results.

© Dateable.com LLC 2000

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